Mistress Ashlyn Grey
Washington DC/N. VA Dominatrix

Mistress Ashlyn Grey Washington DC/N. VA DominatrixMistress Ashlyn Grey Washington DC/N. VA DominatrixMistress Ashlyn Grey Washington DC/N. VA Dominatrix
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Mistress Ashlyn Grey
Washington DC/N. VA Dominatrix

Mistress Ashlyn Grey Washington DC/N. VA DominatrixMistress Ashlyn Grey Washington DC/N. VA DominatrixMistress Ashlyn Grey Washington DC/N. VA Dominatrix

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I am the one and only Mistress Ashlyn Grey.

Professional Dominatrix and Kink Expert. 

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About Mistress Ashlyn Grey

Get to know me…

I am Mistress Ashlyn Grey and I am the best thing to ever happen to you!

I am a plethora of playful, strict, taunting and seductive. Psychologically I thrive on toying with you and using my slaves for my pleasure and amusement and I assure you that you’ll enjoy every moment of it.

The moment we meet you will be tongue tied and tripping over yourself to please me.

I am extremely versatile offering a safe and consensual BDSM encounter.

Discretion and privacy are very important for myself as well as my clients. I am available to host sessions at a private dungeon in N. VA (convenient to Dulles airport.  Bastille Dungeon provides a fully equipped play space in an upscale area with direct parking and a variety of BDSM furnishings, equipment and toys.   

I work with many established professional Dommes and am available me for private solo sessions as well as duo sessions if you’re so bold to do so.

It’s time for you to let go and submit fully to yours truly, it will be the best decision you’ve made.
I look forward to meeting you.


Mistress Ashlyn Grey

Fully Equipped Dungeon

Hosting at Bastille Dungeon in N. Va.

Bastille Dungeon
Private dungeon located in Northern Virginia, conveniently situated near the Dulles Airport area, serving the Washington DC suburbs.

About Bastille Dungeon

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Bastille Dungeon
Private dungeon located in Northern Virginia, conveniently situated near the Dulles Airport area, serving the Washington DC suburbs.

Facilities & Equipment

  • Furniture & Structures:
    • Saint Andrews Cross
    • Large bondage table with integrated cage underneath
    • Captive cage
    • Two spanking benches (one kneeling, one standing)
    • Large leather suspended sling
    • Custom antique bondage/medical table
    • Large bondage frame
    • Bondage chair
    • Suspended bondage floating table (a unique experience best seen in person)
    • Smother box
    • Suspended neck stock
    • Pool table used for dynamic bondage scenes
    • Queen-size canopy bed with bondage restraints
    • Custom latex vacuum bed
    • And much more

Implements & Accessories

  • Floggers, whips, and various impact toys
  • Extensive collection of canes
  • Venus machine
  • Bondage sleeves
  • Paddles and clamps
  • CBT implants
  • Wide variety of collars and leashes
  • Bondage gear including cuffs, straps, and ropes
  • Large selection of gags
  • Straps and toys designed for stuffing, plus a variety of plugs
  • Several tens units
  • Violet wand
  • And so much more!

Cleanliness & Amenities

  • All equipment and implements are thoroughly cleansed using medical-grade cleaners.
  • A HEPA air purifier runs continuously to maintain a clean, safe environment.
  • Full restroom facilities with shower available for your comfort and convenience.

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    Sessions

    Incall sessions at Bastille Dungeon

    Private Session Rates – Bastille Dungeon (N. VA) Sessions exceeding three hours incur an additional $300 per hour. Couples sessions require an extra $300 per booking. I kindly request at least one day’s notice to ensure a seamless experience. If you insist on a same-day appointment, it will only be considered for sessions two hours or longer, with a minimum of four hours’ notice required and a $300 surcharge applied. Tipping is not required, but it’s always appreciated.

    90 minutes

    $600

    Primarily reserved for returning clients, though I may consider new clients for a brief introductory session. This time includes consultation and any necessary prep or post-session activities.

    Best suited for exploring 1–2 light BDSM activities. golden showers are not offered during this session.

    Please choose this option based on compatibility—not just price.

    2 hours

    $700

    This is my preferred minimum session length, whether you're a returning client or new. It allows adequate time for a proper pre-session consultation and the opportunity to explore several BDSM activities without feeling rushed.

    3 hours

    $1000

    A three-hour session invites us into a deeper, more immersive experience—unrushed, authentic, and richly satisfying. With ample time to connect through a thoughtful consultation, we can fully indulge in a range of BDSM activities at a relaxed, sensual pace. You’re welcome to shower before and after, allowing the entire experience to flow seamlessly from start to finish.


    Outcall Sessions

    Out call sessions can be offered at your upscale hotel with 48 hours notice. Less the 48 hours notice will include an additional $400 fee.

    2 hour minimum

    $1000

    If you're unable to visit my incall dungeon, outcalls are available with a minimum of 48 hours' notice. I only provide outcalls to upscale hotels within the general DMV area.

    A 50% retainer is required at the time of booking to confirm your session.

    Outcalls beyond the DMV area may be considered on a case-by-case basis and could incur an additional travel fee.

    3 hour outcall

    $1400

    Add a description about this itemIf you're unable to visit my incall dungeon, outcalls are available with a minimum of 48 hours' notice. I only provide outcalls to upscale hotels within the general DMV area.

    A 50% retainer is required at the time of booking to confirm your session.

    Outcalls beyond the DMV area may be considered on a case-by-case basis and could incur an additional travel fee.

    Additional hours

    $400

    If you desire an out call beyond three hours, please include an additional $400 per hour.

    Keep in mind I prefer a days notice for sessions however I can be available same day on occasion with a minimum of four hours notice for an additional $300 fee at a 2 hour minimum or longer. Make sure that you follow the booking instructions located at the bottom of this page and fill out the questionnaire.

    Consultations / Extended Sessions

    Consultations

    Do you wish to meet before committing to a session?

    1 hr Coffee or cocktails

    $200

    let’s meet and chat or coffee or a drink

    90 minute- 2hr Lunch date

    $300

    Add a description about this item because you’re a good slave you are responsible for covering the price of my meal and drink.

    3hr Dinner date

    $500

    Let’s get together for a nice dinner and drinks while we unwind and get to know each-other.  You are responsible for covering the cost of my meal and drinks.

    Take Me to the nail salon

    $500

    Please me as you watch me relax while I have my nails and pedicure done.  You can watch and keep me company or indulge in a mani/pedi with me.   You are responsible for covering the cost of my nails and pedicure. 

    Shopping trip 4-5 hrs

    $800

    I know I’m spoiled and I know you want the privilege to be able to please me with a shopping trip.  Lingerie shopping? Shoes? Makeup? The possibilities are endless.  And because you’re a good slave you’ll be picking up the tab.


    Speciality Sessions/Extended

    Looking to enhance our session?

    Duo Session with Mistress Tiffany and myself for 2hrs

    $1200

    Serve the Head Mistress of Bastille Dungeon and myself.  I LOVE duo sessions and we will have you working hard for our pleasure. 

    Dinner and play package (5 hrs total)

    $1400

    This is the perfect aperitif before a session. Let’s enjoy a lovely dinner and then we will conclude back at the Dungeon for a 2-3 hr session.  Total time with dinner and play after is 5hrs.

    8 hr full day or long evening

    $2700

    Indulge in a full 8 hours of being all mine.  We will play, you will serve and you will walk away spent  in the best possible way.  I can provide this at the dungeon or your upscale hotel.  

    12 hrs overnight.

    $4000

    You’re going to love being all mine all night.
    the majority of our time will be at a nice hotel.  (You will provide this).  We will also have the opportunity to play st the dungeon for several hours if you wish to serve me there as well.  I will need a minimum of 5 hours of uninterrupted sleep.   Food and beverages must be provided by you.

    Your ass is mine for 24hrs

    $8000 48hrs notice required

    It’s time that you level up!  Imagine all the possibilities of serving me and being all mine for 24 hours. All day and all night he will be truly immersed into my world.  
    24 hours does require an upscale hotel (provided by you).

    –5 hours at the dungeon if you would like to have some play there as well.

    I will require my own sleeping accommodations and up to 6hrs of uninterrupted sleep.
    meals and drinks must be covered by you.  
    This is the perfect opportunity to serve and entertain me personally.

    FMTY/TMTY 6 hrs

    $5000

    Do you wish you here to serve me but can’t? I am now available for you to fly me to your location or if you’re a bit closer I can travel via train.

    A minimum of 6 hrs to serve me is included in this. If you don’t have 6 hrs of time you’re still responsible for paying my flat rate for 6hrs.  Want more time add $400 per hour (you must let me know in advance).  I will require hotel accommodations and you’re responsible for covering my airfare/train Along with meals and drinks.  48hrs notice required

    Add a footnote if this applies to your business

    Expectations

    Before booking an appointment

    Booking & Appointment Guidelines

    1. Review My Website Thoroughly
    Before booking, please read my website carefully. Ensure you understand what I offer, what I do not offer, and my donation requirements.

    2. Complete the Online Questionnaire
    To book an appointment, you must first complete the online questionnaire before calling.

    3. Submissive Expectations
    I only meet with genuine submissives who are polite, respectful, and maintain good hygiene. A shower is available at the dungeon if you wish to freshen up before our appointment.

    4. Scheduling Through Mistress Tiffany
    All appointments are arranged by Mistress Tiffany for my convenience. She will coordinate your session and ensure we are compatible. Mistress Tiffany is generous with her time on the phone; please respect her time and answer any questions she may ask.

    5. Privacy & Appearance
    For privacy and discretion, I do not show my face in photos. However, all photos on my site are recent and of me personally. I assure you, I am a very attractive woman and you will not be disappointed when we meet.

    Ready to book an appointment? What you need to know.

    Appointment Booking Guidelines

    1. Do Your Research
    To reserve an appointment with me, I expect sincere submissives who have done their homework by thoroughly reading my website.

    2. Complete the Online Questionnaire & Call Within Hours
    After reviewing my website, please fill out the online questionnaire by clicking the “Book Now” button. Once submitted, you may call between 12 PM and 10 PM to arrange your session. Do not send text messages or call outside these hours. Disrespecting these rules will result in a permanent blacklist and refusal of service.

    3. Retainer and Payment Policy
    A 30% retainer is required at the time of booking to hold your reservation. Payment instructions will be provided when you call. Mistress Tiffany will coordinate collection of the retainer. The remaining balance can be paid in cash at the session or via Cash App or Venmo—please specify your preference when booking.

    4. Notice & Same-Day Appointments
    I prefer appointments booked with at least one day’s notice. Same-day appointments may be possible with a minimum of four hours’ notice from the time you call. Please note: same-day bookings incur an additional fee and require full payment upfront rather than a retainer.

    Once you’ve booked a session.

    Appointment Policies & Expectations

    1. Clear Instructions After Booking
    Once you have booked your appointment by phone, you will receive clear, easy-to-follow instructions regarding your session.

    2. Retainer & Refund Policy
    Your retainer is non-refundable. However, if I am unable to attend the session, your retainer will be fully refunded. I understand emergencies happen; if you provide more than 24 hours’ notice, I typically allow up to seven days to reschedule without requiring a new retainer.

    3. Cancellation Without 24-Hour Notice
    If you cancel with less than 24 hours’ notice, full payment for the session is required. In emergencies where notice cannot be given, I typically allow up to 10 days to reschedule without paying again. This policy helps you prepare responsibly for your session.

    4. Last-Minute Cancellation & Payment Responsibility
    If you cancel last minute and refuse to pay for the session, you will be permanently banned from future sessions. It is your responsibility to respect my cancellation and rescheduling policies. Even if you do not plan to reschedule, payment is still required without 24-hour notice. Thank you for understanding.

    5. Address & Location Disclosure
    The dungeon’s address will only be provided at the agreed confirmation time. Do not request the location before then, as this is essential for safety and discretion.

    6. Hygiene Expectations
    Please arrive freshly showered and clean. If you are unable to shower beforehand, facilities are available on-site to freshen up. Proper hygiene is important to ensure you are at your best for our session.

    7. Dress Code
    The dress code upon arrival is business casual. Please avoid being overdressed or underdressed. Appropriate attire includes khakis, slacks, button-up shirts, polos, etc.

    General protocols.

    Expectations & Protocols

    1. Professional Boundaries
    I truly enjoy the time I spend with my clients; however, please understand that I am not seeking a boyfriend or a personal slave. Do not ask. Respect and appreciate the time we share during our sessions.

    2. Privacy & Contact Policy
    Do not request my personal number or any non-business contact information, and do not attempt to give me yours (phone numbers, business cards, etc.). Doing so will result in permanent banning. If you wish to attend an event, dinner, lunch, or cocktails with me, I offer session options for that. This policy does not mean I do not enjoy my clients — I simply keep my BDSM/kink life separate from my personal life. Please respect this. Our time together is meant to be fun, discreet, and erotic — let’s keep it that way.

    3. Substance Policy
    Drugs are not permitted in the dungeon. While I do not mind an occasional drink, if you arrive intoxicated, the session will end immediately without a refund.

    4. Consent & Boundaries
    No means NO. If I tell you no, do not ask again. Any attempt to cross my boundaries will result in being removed from the dungeon without a refund and permanent banning. I respect your boundaries — I expect the same in return.

    5. Illegal Activities & Touching
    Do not ask for illegal activities or sexual favors. I am a professional dominatrix, not an escort. Do not touch or grab me without permission. Unpermitted touching or groping will result in immediate termination of the session without a refund. In sessions involving body worship or sensual domination, touching will only occur where and when I give explicit permission. Good behavior is always rewarded.

    6. Cancellations at the Appointment
    If you arrive for your appointment and decide not to follow through with the session, you are still responsible for paying for the full time you reserved.

    7. Extended Sessions
    Extended sessions typically require a 50% retainer.

    8. Phones, Photos & Recordings
    Photography, video, or audio recording of any kind is strictly prohibited during sessions. All mobile phones must be kept in your vehicle or fully put away.

    Thank you for respecting my expectations and protocols.

    Sessions I offer

    • Foot and leg fetishes 
    • OTK spanking 
    • Bondage/Restraints 
    • slave positions/protocol
    • Whipping
    • Teasing/"O" control/edging
    • Chastity training (bring your own device)
    • Flogging 
    • Needle play/Medical play/Temp Piercing/Caths/Sounding 
    • Knife play 
    • ABDL
    • (Covered) ass worship 
    • Water sports 
    • Clothing Fetishes
    • Paddling 
    • Roleplay 
    • Spitting 
    • Clamps (Anywhere on you body)
    • Electrical play
    • Humiliation
    • Drawing on you 
    • Sissification/Cross dressing 
    • CFNM
    • Mummification 
    • Slapping 
    • Slave training 
    • CBT/CBB
    • Nipple play
    • Objectification 
    • Toy play/Strap/Prostate
    • Smothering/breath play 
    • Leash play 
    • Puppy/kitten play 
    • Water retaining  
    • Trampling 
    • Shoe worship 
    • Body Worship
    • Glove worship 
    • Domestic training 
    • Blackmail (roleplay only)
    • Massage (recieve only) 
    • Counseling and life support
    • Financial domination 
    • R@pe play 
    • Brat play 
    • Forced bi 

    ​

    Boundaries:

    What I do not offer!

    • Blood Play
    • Scat
    • Anything Illegal
    • Sexual Services

    Contact Me

    Ready to book an appointment with me?

    if you’re interested in booking an appointment keep in mind. It is best to provide a minimum of one days notice however, I can on occasion be available for same-day appointments with a minimum of 4 hours notice and do require an additional fee of $300 for same-day appointments.

    Before you call to book an appointment, make sure that you fill out the online questionnaire. If you skip this step, you will be denied a session.

    Mistress Ashlyn Grey

    202-709-5634 (Calls are accepted between noon – 10 PM). Do NOT call outside of these hours! Do NOT Text! Fill out the online Questionnaire before you call. Questions: Email mindyourdomme@gmail.com

    Availability

    Open today

    11:00 am – 10:00 pm

    I'm available most weekdays, Monday through Friday, from 11 AM to 11 PM—ample time to surrender yourself properly.

    Weekends are more selective. I cherish my personal time, but if you’re craving time with me on a weekend, early mornings—between 9 AM and mid-morning—are ideal.

    If morning doesn’t suit your schedule, I may be tempted to make an exception for you… with enough advance notice. After all, I wouldn't want to deprive you of the pleasure of my presence.

    Click here for My Questionnaire. 

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